For the Ford stuff, are you people talking about the water pump on the transverse-mounted non-ecoboost V6 - the one that when it lets go, leaks coolant into the oil and kabooms the engine if not caught straight away? Doesn't affect the comparable engine used in longitudinal installations - the water pump is not driven the same way. The trouble is that pro-actively replacing the water pump on the transverse-engine vehicles is a very expensive proposition, and most people don't do it. And yet ... friend of mine has a Ford Edge with one of those engines, and he's not had trouble with it.
Or are you talking about the grooves between cylinders on the top of the block of several different inline-4 ecoboost engines - the ones that blow head gaskets and crack blocks? My sister and brother-in-law had an Escape with one of those engines (1.6 Ecoboost 4 cylinder) for a long time. Never had any trouble, although the vehicle has since been traded in for a Subaru - another vehicle with a reputation as a head-gasket-blower - but that hasn't been trouble, either. CVT in the Subaru, too. Not a vehicle that I would have bought. Hasn't been an issue.
There's always something. GM is going through some things with the 6.2 V8 truck engines. Friend of mine has one (which he bought used about a year and a half ago). It collapsed a lifter and took out the camshaft. Very little warning, either - it just started running rough one day and the "money light" came on, with an underlying misfire code. But the collapsed-lifter thing isn't what the current service campaign is about. It's bottom-end bearings.
My van has the Chrysler Pentastar 3.6 V6 petrol engine that they've built millions of, and put into just about everything. I'm quite aware of the potential "Pentastar tick" issue and the cracked-oil-cooler-base issue. Knock on wood but I've not had trouble. I'm careful to not overtorque the oil filter cap - it's sealed with an O-ring and need only be just snug - and the dealer never sees the van, so they can't break it for me, either. There's speculation that the somewhat-related "Hemi tick" (same issue on a different engine series) is due to high idle time, which my van doesn't see. Mine spends 90% of its run time, at 1700 rpm in sixth gear with the torque converter locked. So far, so good.