I rarely connect panels together. I learned my lesson the hard way when I first started designing with tilt-up. I connected a series of panels together, thinking it would be a benefit (though I did not have anything specific to back up that thought). I ended up having the connections fail due to shrinkage. If I need a longer section of panel due to shear demand, I will tie a couple together, other than that, I do not connect at all (except in the corners of the building). I have never seen an issue of panels deflecting out of plane enough to cause a problem. We do specify that joints in finishes align with the panel joints, but that is more for shrinkage concerns than out of plane.
How much out of plane deflection do you think you will have? Will your detail resist the load required to create such deflection? You say yourself that you have not designed for any specific load.