BRGENG,
Does your firm also design all your own wood and cfs roof trusses, anchorage details for granite cladding on fancy office buildings, aluminum curtain wall anchorage details, anchorage systems for door and window openings in blast-resitant structures, support rails and connectors for commercial PV systems, open-web steel joists, etc.? Do you design your own concrete mix designs or do you rely on the readymix supplier to design based on your specs? I sincerely appreciate the point you are trying to make, I really do, but your argument is a bit naive and narrow-minded; almost hypocritical.
I really believe, and I am sure that you do too, that probably most of the engineers that delegate connection design to fabricators would love to design their own connections; because we are all engineers and that is our intrinsic nature. But in regions where the custom is to delegate, how many engineers are in a position to try to change that? Not many I'm guessing. Regional differences are like regional accents -- they are what they are and they are not gonna change. If someone absolutely can't stand the annoying valley-girl accent in San Diego, then should move to Texas.