My guess is your firm has been burned on several jobs that didn't pump properly. Most likely, the cement content was shorted.
I don't see any reason to shy away from pea rock.
As a concrete pumper, specifying a "pumpable pea-gravel mix" , or a "pumpable mix" whenever a pump is used or anticipated is the mark of an engineer with field experience. There are tailgate loads and pumpable loads. Pumpable mixes cost more and herein lies the devil in the details.
The task in the drawing room is a mix design that accomplishes the goal and then there is an eye to economy. Often, the fact that the mud will be pumped is left out of the equation! Hence the beginning of a bloodbath that leaves many a concrete pumper homicidal.
Rocks don't pump. If they did, quarries around the world would have concrete pumps in them.
A pumpable 5 sack 3/4 rock mix will most likely not pump if pea gravel is substituted. Pumping 1.5" rock thru a 5" system is easier than 3/4 , than 1/2" than 3/8....etc. CDF...2.5 sack, course sand and water and one jug of Palmolive soap per load pumps fairly good depending on conditions, pump and system. Concrete pumps because of the cementicious, water, sand and rock is in the proper blend. Pea gravel has more surface area than the larger rock. Bloodbaths are often encountered when pumping pea gravel because the rock content per yard is simply too high and not enough cement is present to provide the lubrication.
I pump a 7 sack pea gravel mix thru 2.5 rubber hose all day long. When the customer wants to lower the sack content I pull out my arrival ticket that states I require a pumpable mix....It's his money if we spend time banging hoses and doctoring mixes!
Wetting up a pea rock load that is already shy of cement is death.
I have had troubles at 6 sack. It wont do a 5 unless the hose is short.
Smaller line pumps cannot pump more than pea rock. An Olin ball valve is a perfect tool. Boom pumps can pump pea rock but going smaller is a real risk. Rocks are good in a boom pump. Stiff loads are fine provided the cement content is there.