Did the architect mention why he doesn't want the post going through to the foundation? If I had to guess, I'd say it's fear of a thermal bridge from the crawl/basement up into the house through the steel. A legitimate concern (Boone gets pretty cold), but so is making sure the building doesn't fall down. If you can't make a connection work with confidence given the limits the Arch has imposed, you need to renegotiate those limits. The Arch is not a god (though many think it of themselves) and he's relying on you to make his vision a reality. Be careful, of course - push back too hard on too many things and he'll find somebody else to make his next vision a reality.
I like KootK's sketch - kinda what I was thinking, though I'm not sure you'd need the stiffeners. A heavy plate should be good for residential loads. What's the relative depth of the joists framing into this? If you can make the beam slightly shallower than the joists, then it'll leave some room to recess the plate. If you can't, the arch will have to get fancy furring it out.
If you can't make the connection at the top work, consider finding a solution that lets you take the post all the way down to the foundation. You could try to fix it at the base to resist the lateral loads, or you could try to use the force couple of the foundation and where it passes through the floor diaphragm to resist the moment. Might take some special detailing in the floor and it would probably behave more like a partially restrained connection (some moment resistance but not quite enough to call it perfectly rigid).