Cooksumrice:
You need to give much more info. and a sketch, with dimensions, sizes, loads, etc. How is this thing going to be used and loaded? 3" bolts aren’t off the self items, nor is a detail using them a common detail. The end bearing is just the area of the 3" circle. Bearing as in a bolt hole, maybe a pin hole in a padeye (lifting plate), is a Hertz stress problem, and is a function of the bolt dia. and the hole dia.