Wood, interresting material.
Strictly speaking wood is not a isotropic material, therefore G = E / (2(1+v)) does not apply. Depending on the direction you study compared to the fiberdirection the E-module varies, a lot.
What you need is a 3d anisotropic material model, or some simplifications.
You say truss, that means that E-module parallel to the fibers (typically the "highest" value) is what you need.
G controls shear deformation, not a very significant parameter for a truss.
Finally v, also not that important for a truss. It is typically 0.025 or 0.4 depending on fiber direction. Say 0.025, calculate G as for the isotropic material using a correct value for E.
I don't think you will be too far from the truth. Also, Nastran (at least the MSC flavour) as far as I know uses the values you input. It's complains if isotropic relation is "violated" but nothing is changed in the numbers. "Garbage in, garbage out".
Good Luck
Thomas