Loads: 3/4" plywood = 2.25 psf
Slate tile (1/4"?) = 10 psf
Source of this info: one of my books.
DL = 2.25 + 10 = 12.25 psf X 16/12 = 16.33 PLF
Live loads - how about... 40 psf x 16/12 = 53.33 PLF + 20 people on their tip-toes standing on each other's shoulders (assume you have *really* high ceilings) @ 200 # each (assume they're well-fed and/or light-heavyweight bodybuilders) = 4000 #
DL + LL (scratch loads, no load factors applied) = 16.33 + 53.33 = 69.67 PLF, with a 4000 # concentrated load in the middle of the beam (worst case).
Shear force = wl/2 + P/2 = 69.67 X 12/2 + 4000/2 = 2418 # - your connections must be rated for this load or better; and worry about the girder to which they are attached (if that's the way the deck is built)
Moment = wl^2/8 + Pl/4 = 13254.1 ft-#
2-2x10's, southern pine #1 (assumed); A = 28.5 si, S = 45.13 in^3, I = 214.34 in^4; Fb = 1050 psi, Fv = 70 psi, E = 1,300,000 psi
Shear stress = fv = 1.5V/A = 1.5 X 2418/28.5 = 127 NG
Bending stress = fb = M/S = 13254.1 X 12/45.13 = 3524.25 NG
Deflection = 5wl^4/384EI + Pl^3/48EI = 5 X 69.67/12 X (12 X 12)^4/384 X1300000 X 214.34 + 4000 X (12 X 12)^3/48 X 1300000 X 214.34 = .12 + .89 = 1.01" Check deflection limit l/240 = 144"/240 = .6" NG
From the above, I would say that the deck might start to fail in shear, bending and that deflection of 1" will probably start some of the tiles to crack.
You may want to try different loads, like: 20 people back-to-back lining up on the beam, changing the line load and decreasing the concentrated load.
Question: how's the deck act when it rains? If it's got plywood and tile on it, I would be concerned about ponding loads, assuming the party is "rain or shine."
Is it a Halloween party? If so, add an additional ten pounds or so per persons for costumes.