phamENG - I completely agree with your point on seismic separation. Ideally, you would be able to separate the structures where they wouldn't load each other at all, but that is not always possible. Of course it becomes even more difficult to isolate the two when there are shared openings between the wood and steel (ie exterior doors and windows). And I would also agree that the wood structure would likely be stiffer than the steel since as you said PEMBs are allowed to drift quite a bit usually.
I would be hesitant to apply any additional load to the PEMB since they are typically designed with no additional capacity. From a liability aspect, how would you make yourself comfortable with the lateral capacity of the PEMB with the additional load from the wood infill?
If you did go down the path of designing the wood structure to contribute to the lateral support of part of the PEMB, it seems like the load path would be challenging to detail. Wouldn't you risk altering the lateral load distribution of the PEMB too if you started connecting stiffer lateral elements to it (wood shearwalls vs mainframes with large drifts)?
I don't disagree with you, just trying to think of the implications of connecting the two instead of isolating.
PEMB = pre engineered metal building (another term for MBS)