I'm in the Front Range area of CO where we usually have wind speeds between 110 mph and 140 mph 3-sec gust, so we use shearwalls in residential construction all over. It's just like any other building:
1. Determine winds loads on structure per ASCE7;
2. Get a feel for the resistance by adding up wall lengths in each direction. You can use the vaules of the drywall and exterior sheathing. (Per IBC or NDS.)
3. Compare values to see if you need to beef up the exterior sheathing nailing at exterior walls (preferred) or even add shearwalls inside (common here, but makes the constrution sequence harder, and also can be complicated to hold down the wall ends if not on a concrete foundation.)
4. If you have all windows on one wall, we often have to add steel moment frames. However, note that wood floor/roof diaphragms can cantilever somewhat, but there are limitations in the code.
5. Simpson products are very handy. However, I usually avoid Simpson Strong-walls because of the coordination required during the foundation pour. I have not used their new moment frames yet, but they might be available now in some areas.
My experience has been that all structural noises and the feel of momevent in the wind will be eliminated by simply following the code for wind design. It's when you ignore it that the building feel shaky in a strong wind.
Hope that helps!