Sure it's possible but you need to use expressions.
It's been a while since I have been in NX4 so I will do my best here:
Attach the distance mates beween object 1 and 2, and object 3 & 4.
Go into your expressions. Tools > expresions
The last couple expressions will have your distance mates.
it will look something like:
p436=34
p437=68
edit the second of the two expressions:
p437=2*p436