fastline12
What state are you located in?
If it is an exempted building, I might be able to assist in the design. However, I am a building designer. If you are in a state that exempts SFRs under both architect and engineer's law. I could possibly work out the calcs.
However, I am in Oregon so exemption exists in both architect law or engineer law so I don't have to have an engineer's license to design houses and run the structural calcs if it is within my area of competence. This does not mean, I go around calling myself an engineer. (I'll double check what this forum is categorizing me...)
I have various manuals that depicts much of how to engineer posts, beams, pole and other timber structures.
If needed, an S.E. can be brought on board.
Your area of expertise is in aerospace and that would be a very different field and your area of expertise would only be best applicable in determining aerodynamics of the building and how it might perform under extreme winds. However, we aren't trying to make the house fly.... LOL!