I'm not seeing what Heldbaum alluded to. Or, maybe the information there isn't as helpful as he thought it would be.
Section 9 (of the 14th edition manual) has a section on coped beam strength. But, it does't talk about the detailing of that cope at all (i.e. rounded vs square).
It also has a section on Copes, Blocks and Cuts which talks about the preferred method of sequencing the coping cuts. But, it doesn't talk much about the consequences of a poor cut (in terms of loss of capacity), it just talks about a potential notch.
It does give a few suggestions on how to reinforce a coped beam. But, the tables giving the properties of a coped beam, don't really tell how they would be affected by poor coping.
My suggestion would be the following:
If this is a low stress region, it's probably okay.
However, if it makes you uncomfortable, you can reinforce it.
Not something I've done, but I wonder if you guy just grind out a radius in that area to change the nature of the "fracture mechanics" in that area.