It may be easier to describe the action of a synchronous diesel generator.
We are going to run a small diesel generator in parallel with the grid.
First we run it up to rated speed, say 1800 rpm.
Then we match the voltage.
Then we watch the synchroscope and close the breaker at the correct time.
Now the governor/throttle is set to provide enough fuel to maintain the set at 1800 RPM.
The generator is not supplying or drawing any power.
However the generator is now locked to the utility power. If we reduce the fuel the engine will not slow down but the utility will supply enough power to keep the set running at 1800 rpm.
If we increase the fuel feed the set will not speed up but will supply power to the grid.
The power out of a generator in parallel with the grid depends only on the throttle setting. The more power the engine produces the more power will be supplied to the grid.
dpc mentioned phase angle. This is correct. The generator shaft moves a few degrees (or in some cases only part of a degree) ahead of the synchronous position, and when this is converted into electrical degrees, this is the phase angle.
When the set is being motored the generator shaft position is a little behind the synchronous position. When the set is producing power the generator shaft is a little ahead of the synchronous position.
Power out depends only on power in (plus losses).
The exact small number of degrees is academic and is only considered in the rare cases when someone wants to run two synchronous frequency convertors in parallel, run two generators on one shaft and synchronize them or something similar.
What does this mean to a wind generator?
The amount of power depends still on the power in. The harder the wind blows, the more power the wind generator will put out.
An induction generator does not lock on like a synchronous generator does but slips. Now instead of a few degrees of mechanical displacement we are talking about several RPM of mechanical slip. However, the phase displacement of the resulting power will be the similar few degrees of leading phase angle.
The harder the wind blows, the more power your wind machine will produce and a corespondingly less amount of power will flow through your power meter.
Similar to a diesel generator a wind turbine may be motored.
If the wind does not keep the wind turbine above synchronous speed, the utility will supply the power to keep it turning at near synchronous speed. As itsmoked pointed out, you now have a large fan that is quite expensive to run.
itsmoked makes some good points about other issues.
remember, the harder the wind blows the more power your set puts out.
The farther you pull the throttle on a diesel set, the more electrical power it puts out.
respectfully