You describe this as a steam flash drum but then say the 'steam' entering this vessel is 2 kg/sec. Your conditions are essentially saturation, do you mean steam condensate from upstream sources (490F @ 600F) flowing at 2 kg/sec into this drum (and flashing)?
I'm going to assume you mean 2 kg/sec of steam condensate.
1. calculate how much flash steam is produced. If you are vented to atmosphere I'd try as a first pass assuming atmospheric pressure in the tank.
2. Ignore the water (intended to condense some of the steam I assume) because this could fail. Size the tank diameter based on the Souder Brown equation for a two phase separator (since that is essentially what you are doing).
3. You need to know the pressure the tank can take and then select a desired maximum internal pressure under that pressure for the case of the water spray system failing. Size the vent so that it will pass the amount of flash steam without overpressuing the tank.
For the noise calc, I'm not sure I have a method for that. My only recommendation is to keep the velocity through the vent nozzle low. You'll start to get noise issues above 60 to 80 ft/sec. You should only have significant velocities through the vent when the water spray system isn't working, the rest of the time when it is in service the velocities will be much less (if you don't condense all the steam with the quench spray, I haven't worked out the numbers to see if that occurs or you condense only a portion).