How did you determine your RC slab long-term deflection magnitude of 35mm - cracked section, with accurate estimate of creep and shrinkage deflections?
For a given span, with PT design you have two significant variables that the designer can use - structural depth (eccentricity) and prestress force. If you are trying to reduce 35mm of tip deflection for a 4m cantilever (Δ/L = 1/230) you may be able to reduce the slab depth for a given prestress force and eccentricity. In theory you could make the cantilever tip deflection zero with a PT solution, but that will not be practical assuming building-type loadings, facade loads, economics, etc.
With you existing RC model, you could apply EQUIVALENT LOADS due to prestress (due to tendon curvature, eccentricity and change of CG) as a load case (making an allowance for prestress losses), and add that load case to your serviceability load cases. It may give you an indication of deflections - but it depends on the severity/magnitude of flexural stresses. Based upon the chosen level of prestress you would need to manually check flexural strength at critical sections etc. Not a particularly elegant solution.
I am old-school - so what we did before computers to get a trial section - I would do a few hand calcs and determine an appropriate D and Pef using equivalent loads. First check punching shear to arrive at a starting depth based upon say 1.5 MPa of P/A - be careful of P/A at corner and edge columns. Start with balancing say 75% of SW, this will get you your tendon eccentricities, calc your equivalent loads, then do a quick moment distribution, check flexural stresses at peak M- and M+, check elastic-calc deflections, see what the magnitude is, allow for approx time-dependent effects, then adjust prestress and/or depth, as required.