TME said:
I reread through most of this topic and while KootK has said some slightly antagonistic comments or defended his position in a fairly aggressive way I feel that overall KootK has attempted to maintain a balanced approach to the debate...Further, near the end, while KootK did become fairly defensive (and I see nothing wrong with this)
Thanks for defending my honor TME. Seriously, you have my genuine, non-sarcastic thanks. It gets a little cold and lonely out in agitator-land at times.
This thread has a fairly wide audience, both in terms of active participants and lurkers (I hear from them through other channels). It's also the thread where my particular style of debate has been highlighted the most. Consequently, I'd like to take the opportunity to explain my style of debate. This will be one post of, what, 250 here? I'll accept the hijacker tag.
Engineers are generally good, humble folk who do their best to avoid unnecessary confrontation. And it shows here. In my estimation, most forum members just want to dole out their practical solution to whatever practical question has been asked and move on. If differing advice crops up, they're usually happy to agree to disagree.
I'm a little different. I'm constantly, and vigorously in search of the structural "truth" to the extent that there is such a thing. Whenever I see two brilliant engineers offer differing advice without taking it to the mat in a spirited debate, I see a wasted opportunity to chase down the the truth. And lets not kid ourselves, for many things, there really is a
best answer. We just have to flesh it out.
Hokie66 once referred to one of my previous sparring partners as
somewhat abrasive. I like that. That's how I would like to be regarded. Sometimes I'm abrasive so that I can drive my points home. Other times, I'm abrasive in attempt to cajole my sparing partners into driving
their points home. Always, the goal is to try and tease out a better understanding and, where possible, a legitimate consensus.
I get that some folks find my style of debate obnoxious. And I feel badly about that when things start to boil over, truly. On the other hand, I feel that the tenacity with which I prosecute technical debates here leads to a lot of interesting and valuable technical growth. It is, and has always been, my hope that the benefits of the latter outweigh the frustrations associated with the former. Think of me like Michael Vick. You might not want to hang with me on the weekend but you gotta admit, I do keep things marching downfield.
I like to debate structural engineering theory -- a lot. If I challenge you on something, know that I'm doing so because I respect your opinion enough to either change it or adopt it.