Hi, thank you for your answers. Let me explain myself better, where I live the law allows the utilities to charge the demand to the customers if they pass the 10 kW limit. Other away, the customer just pay energy.
So, once you sign a contract with the utility and they determine that your demand will be above the 10 kW, then they assign you a rate with demand charge and to ask for a rate change you need to install a power limiter. But the utility doesn't supply this power limiter. Like Jghrist says there are some sophisticated management systems that cost a lot and let you control each independent circuit within a panel board.
Then, I was wondering if I could find a simple device, like a breaker, that allows me to control the maximum demand and let me set the demand value, that would turn everything off at the set point, but with a adjustable time delay to reset. I have to say that I have a backup power source (an inverter), that would supply only part of the load (lights mainly) while I shed some loads to avoid the power limiter to trip again.
Regards.