OK, so here is what I'm thinking (keep in mind I'm a structural engineer and know just enough about electrical to be dangerous).
I went and purchased the two-way switch with receiver. I was hoping that the reciever would be a simple switch device that I could modify so when the switch went to "off", I could just hook up the other jumper wire. No good on that. Just a circuit board with all kinds of resisters and capacitors and junk (way beyond my comprehension).
So I then took apart the wall switch. Here's what I'm thinking. I purchase a second two-way switch with reciever. Currently, if you push the top part of the switch it pushes a button on the circuit board to turn the reciever "on", if you push the bottom, another button turns it "off". So I set the first switch and receiver to signal "A" (they can be set to "A" or "B"

. I set the second switch and reciever to "B". I install the second switch circuit board in the same switch box with the first (this will get creative). I will connect the "on" switch of board 2 to the "off" switch of board 1 and vice versa.
Here is what I think the result will be. When I press "on", reciever 1 will turn "on" (black wire), reciever 2 will turn "off" (red wire). When I turn "off", reciever 1 will turn "off" (black wire), reciever 2 will turn "on" (red wire). There's my three way switch?