It is always better to remove iron and other contaminants as far upstream of the critical process as possible. Chemical conditioning does not remove the iron from the feedwater and, therefore, when operating conditions change, such as temperature elevation, the iron can become oxidized and form deposits. Chemical conditioning does not remove or alter suspended solids or gases.
There are ways to oxidize iron without traditional (i.e., packed tower, bubble tray, cascade trays, air sparger) aeration techniques; however, to remove large amounts of iron, oxidation followed by filtration is best. In some cases, sodium zeolite softening will remove soluble iron; however, in most cases, iron is present in soluble as well as insoluble form along with other contaminants such as suspended solids and hydrogen sulfide, elemental sulfur, etc. These all tend to foul ion exchange resins rapidly resulting in extensive maintenance and costs.
If sufficient dissolved oxygen is naturally present in the feedwater, catalytic oxidation and removal of iron and H2S can be accomplished using a pressure filter containing a manganese dioxide filter media. For your application I would recommend using a natural manganese dioxide ore (a.k.a. pyrolusite) as opposed to man-made coated-materials such as manganese Greensand, Greensand Plus, or Birm.
If dissolved oxygen needs to be introduced, I would recommend using a pressurized aeration device (a.k.a. air saturator or air contactor) that uses compressed air to introduce oxygen into water under pressure. The air saturator introduces oxygen from air into the feedwater almost instantaneously. Immediately after the air saturator, filtration can occur using the same manganese oxide media that I have describe above.
There is no need for chemical introduction or pH adjustment. Periodic backwashing of the pressure filter(s) using clean water will removes oxidized iron from the filter bed. Natural media will not breakdown overtime. With proper backwash and cleaning procedures and techniques, media should outlast the vessel containing it.
In the early 80s, I was involved with supplying pressure filters for iron removal from injection wells at the Union Oil Salton Sea project. But, that application sounds a bit different than yours. There are many experts on this forum (including the manufacturer(s) of your process equipment) that may have direct experience with your application and I would defer to them.
S. Bush