While I agree that CVG and KRS are correct - I interpreted the question as to whether or not the off-site drainage would have to be detained. If I am right - read on. If not - ignore me!
You have to design your system to handle the offsite flows but you do not need to reduce those flows.
In NJ (USA), the RSIS (residential site improvement standards) call for flows to be reduced to 50% of pre-dev. flows for 2 year storm, 75% for 10 year, and 80% for 100 year.
If you are developing a site with off site drainage contributing, calculate the off-site flow separately and add that number to your allowable flow, i.e., 50% of the 2 year storm (for the area you are developing). Then design your detention system.
Hope that helps, whether I was on target or not with the question!