As CorBlimeyLimey stated, the only selectable origin is the model origin. If you have the model origin hidden you cann't select it. When in a sketch you cann't select the red origin which is the sketch origin, you have to select the blue origin which is the model origin, in order to establish a relation.
Hope this clears things up!
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