ringman-
Your statements indicate that maybe you are confusing the term "ordinate" with "bilateral."
You also said "I still believe that the standard DOES NOT allow the mixing of such in the locating of a pattern of holes or such" seems to indicate that you believe that bilateral, ordinate (or both) and basic dimensions may not be mixed. This is also not true. I recommend you alleviate all doubt and get back to the "horse's mouth" by revisiting Y14.5M which, incidentally, is "Dimensioning and Tolerancing..." not "Geometric Dimensioning and Tolerancing..." (sorry but I had to get that in there because there are many people who have the misconception that it is only GD&T).
If you take a good look, you'll find that bilateral ordinate, bilateral extended, basic ordinate, and basic extended dimensions are perfectly acceptable (but not necessarily desirable) in any combination on any given drawing.
Tunalover