I think our standard detail indicates that nothing needs to be done for openings 18" square and smaller. Above that, we require CFM/hot rolled angle/channels to frame out the perimeter for gravity loads. Even with the framing, there will be a limit beyond which deck diaphragm capacity would be impacted in a meaningful way and one would need to start viewing the edge support framing as collector elements transferring force around the opening (often collectors need to extend beyond the opening).
I like to debate structural engineering theory -- a lot. If I challenge you on something, know that I'm doing so because I respect your opinion enough to either change it or adopt it.