3DDave,
In order to "put into words" a relationship between two features or between a controlled feature and two or three reference features, the designer needs first to understand how this relationship is established as a requirement and how the variation is controlled. If it is expected from the designer to describe the conventional method involving a tolerance zone, a datum reference frame, and basic dimensions, the company should at the very least allow the designer to access either the Y14.5/ISO GPS standards, an internal standard based on any of these, alternatively some professional literature, or arrange some kind of training. If the designer never learned it because the company's management is "smart" and so good at cutting expenses, it is expected from the designer to come up with a method of his own.
Then:
Firstly, I'm all for encouraging creativity and originality, but - good luck No. 1.
Secondly, If he actually managed to come up with something that makes sense and is truly effective at controlling the variation AND providing enough allowance, will the person reading the note be able to understand it as intended? Good luck No. 2.
Suppose that they managed with the above, by extensive direct communication between the designer and the in-house manufacturing+inspection or external vendor. Now the company is going to "rapidly collect" these notes, as you suggest, to create a note bank to be used as a sort of company standard. Wouldn't it soon be required to train people to understand and implement these notes?
What else will come along in the documentation that has this list of notes? Maybe a "terms and definitions" section? Examples and illustrations "means this" style? Who will be editing and maintaining this document? Deciding whether new proposed notes are worth adding, or maybe there are already equivalent ones in the list? Sorting them by categories? What will be the cost of all this to the company?
Wouldn't it already make more sense to train the employees according to a national or international standard and spare all these note writing, collecting, and clarifying efforts?
"Suppliers who have expressed a desire to increase prices or refuse to work if they see even one geometric tolerance" are expecting to see only old school directly toleranced dimensions on the drawings they work by. That includes holes located by directly toleranced dimensions with no detailing of what the tolerance applies to. That supplier doesn't give a damn if you mean to apply the tolerance to a straight axis derived from the largest inscribed perfect cylinder ASME style, an imperfect line representing a center which is influenced by the form of the hole ISO GPS style, a center point of a projected circular contour optical comparator style, the center point of the near/far end of the hole, a center point in a circular cross-section in the middle of the feature that can be probed by a CMM, or anything else. That supplier just wants to work by an ambiguous drawing that doesn't bind him to any verification method or requires him to hire people capable of interpretation of any robustly defined requirements. How will this supplier react to a drawing cluttered with lengthy notes, possibly supplemented by portions from that company standard note-bank documentation (intended to add clarity to some of the notes)? Do you expect him to say, "yeah, that's nothing special... I shouldn't charge a lot for this part since the print doesn't have any GD&T in it..."? You got to be kidding me.
Maybe a better approach would be that if a supplier "expressed a desire to increase prices or refuse to work if they see even one geometric tolerance", that supplier should be avoided?