Thank you all for the replies.
The backstory is that the house is under construction (foundation has been poured, framing starts soon), but I'm making some on-the-fly changes because the 24" deep floor trusses that were delivered last week were mismanufactured. To stay on schedule, we're switching to I-joists (maybe 16" -- still plenty stiff for my spans) and cutting off the porch stem walls to be flush with the top of the basement wall (they are currently taller).
I previously had an engineered design for the slabs that goes with the taller porch stem walls and the floor trusses. To make a long story short, that design never made sense to me, it was sparse on details, and I couldn't get satisfactory answers to my questions about it. So I'm starting over given the new situation.
To respond to some of the comments:
1. I haven't made any calculations. The slab thickness that I'm considering ranges from L/20 (minimum for a simply supported one-way slab, about 6" to 7") up to 12" (because that's the height I need at the house). Also, yes, there will probably be a 6" step down from the house to the porch.
2. The smaller rooms that could be two-way slabs have intermediate supports (full-height 10" thick concrete walls; see foundation plan below). But it seems like these could be one-way slabs in the 11'2" direction, which might make things easier for the builder.
3. The bottom of the slab above the porch rooms will be framed with pressure treated wood covered in insulation and a waterproof membrane. The wood (plus temporary shoring) is mainly to support the slab while it's being poured. It doesn't need to be there after it cures, and I might take it out.
4. The curved profile under the slab could be made with the fill rock in the 40-ft long section of the porch. Due to an oversight, this 40-ft section of wall was designed as a standard basement wall (pinned connection at the top) so I'm looking into putting lightweight backfill in the upper 2/3 of the wall, maybe expanded shale aggregate, to reduce the lateral pressure on it.
5. The detail drawing where the slab meets the house was incomplete. See updated drawing below. There is a waterproof peel & stick brick flashing membrane between the house and concrete slab (H&B Textroflash). There's also brick veneer & brick flashing above it, to direct any water from behind the brick onto the slab to drain away. These porch slabs are covered with roofs, so the brick walls should see minimal water, except maybe at the edges of the porch (we don't get much drifting snow here).
This porch slab detail is typical construction in my region, for better or worse. I considered alternate approaches but ultimately decided to go with this, because they know how to do it and it seems to work in our climate, and because the other approaches have their own drawbacks (even more so if they're built incorrectly due to lack of experience with the techniques).
The main drawback of this porch detail in my view is that if water does get into the rim board area, it can only dry to the inside of the house. That's why there is just enough XPS inside the rim board to prevent condensation of indoor air (R-5 works for my climate if it's exterior insulation; but maybe it will be R-10 here, not sure yet) and the rest is Rockwool. This leaves some of the sill plate vapor open so it can dry inward.