Pawel27:
I can’t see your sketches unless they are pdf files, so I’m guessing a bit here, but based on the posts above.... I think you have to find the C.G. of the mass, and write a set of equations which compare its location to the locations of all of the supporting rods. The rods are support springs with a stiffness or elongation of PL/AE and they will carry the load in proportion to their distance from the C.G. and their section properties, mainly ‘A & L’, and they should sum-up to the total weight. But, then a set of additional equations will relate these spring support forces to the stiffness of the mass structure. As if it were an inverted spread footing/a plate (some structure) supported by randomly located springs. It’s a beam or plate supported by springs. The rods are probably not going to change their vertical location very much unless the stiffness of the supported structure allows it to change dimensions in plan by a significant amount. The plate curvature, under load, should probably not cause much dimensional change in plan. You are looking for compatibility of these two systems, the rod’s elongation at each node point, vs. the deflection of the supported structure due to these support loads. Are there temperature affects too?