Minimum tensile strength on your fastener is 69,300 lbs. As a general rule of thumb, you want to obtain a tension of 75 - 85% of UTS to get the most out of the fasteners in a cyclic, tensile loaded environment. Using the old T=KDW formula, K=.20, W=69,300 X .80 = 55,440, D = .875, you end up with T = 9,702 inch pounds. That works out to 808 ft. lbs.
To get the joint to stay together you need to apply a whole lot more torque to it.
The only other thing that I would suggest is trying high strength Locktite on the threads.
With the torque that you currently applying to the bolts you are only getting somewhere in the area of 7,000 pounds of clamp force. With that low force level you can get by with using unheat treated, grade 2 bolts.