if you couple to the utility you only need a AVR regulator and a PFC regulator ( maybe the same device in example Basler...ABB), this will control the reactive of the generators, that must be inside the capacitive curves... or to work in a fixed power factor. In the side of the kw you need a control for the turbine... maybe Woodward, Voith...Vatech..or other manufacturers....
In the couple to the grid.. you could use a regulator with a voltage matching.. or to raise or reduce voltage with your syncro device working on the AVR... the same with the frequency, you will control the speed regulator with the syncro device... there´s a lot of manufacturer... and you could adjust the window of syncronism... depending on the generator and the utility, you could use a more or less restrictive window...
About protections, i think you will need... in all the sizes of machine... Overvoltage, minimum voltage, overcurrent protections, to earth, overload, between phases with differents curves for trip... and it´s needed to know the way it´s grounded cause depending on this you will use one adjustment or other....reverse power, excesive capacitive (seen from the machine side) current... if you use a Basler 200 you got inside regulator... differencial protection on the generator side and transformer...
I like a lot the multiline (GE) or Sepam ...
If your work on a separated grid, the thing is more easy,
you´ll work normally on droop or cross compensation, and the idea is to make the two machines take the same amount of reactive load, and in the governor side, for the speed, is the same, with the same load.. the governor have to be with the same droop...you could adjust it a little high from the 60 or 50 hz...
i hope this will help