** Define your contact pairs first
**
*STEP
Step 1
** remove them for your first step
*MODEL CHANGE, REMOVE , TYPE = CONTACT PAIR
SURF1 , SURF2
**....
**....
*END STEP
**
*STEP
Step 2
** bring them back in the second step
*MODEL CHANGE, ADD , TYPE = CONTACT PAIR
SURF1 , SURF2
**....
**....
*END STEP
**
Step 3
** use them in the 3rd
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*END STEP