Let's just say that it's not a very good idea....
Assuming that by paralleled, you mean that the generator is supplying the same loads as the main supply, the instant the generator is closed to supply load, you're going to see some nasty transient currents and voltages throughout your system, not to mention some pretty good stresses on your generator. In all likelihood, if you have any kind of protective relaying on the generator, the generator won't be online long after its closed to supply your loads. Protective devices on your main supply may trip as well.
All of this depends on how out-of-synch your generator happens to be with the main supply -- if the frequency, phase, and voltage of the generator and main supply just happen to be close enough (and they have the same phase sequence), the generator will synchronize with the main supply. As for your chances of this actually happening through blind luck.... not good.