Compositepro,
Gear crown and lead correction are used quite commonly to optimize face profile contact in high-performance gear meshes.
But contrary to how you seem to perceive the effects of crown, it actually improves the load capacity of a gear mesh that is subject to axial misalignment at the tooth contact. A mesh that has axial misalignment will tend to edge load and create excessive localized contact stress. Proper crowning will mitigate this condition. The same is true for lead correction and torsional wind-up.
It is true that all other things being equal, a crowned gear tooth will have less capacity than an unmodified gear tooth under perfect alignment. But you should also remember that if the gear mesh was not subject to axial misalignment, crowning would not be required.
The optimum degree of crown and lead correction depends upon many variables such as torsional stiffness of the gearshaft, L/D ratio of the gear teeth, and stiffness of the bearings and housings the gear is mounted in.
Finally, face profile mods (ie. crown and lead correction) will help with contact load distribution, but not so much with noise. Noise is more effectively addressed by optimizing factors such as contact ratio, index errors, and by using appropriate profile and tip modifications.
Hope that helps.
Terry