I recommend that you obtain the services of a practicing structural engineer to assist you in the design of this beam as there are several aspects other than maximum bending moment and deflection to be considered.
Having said that, M = 98.1*2.8 + 0.8*2.82/2 = 277.8kN-m or 277.8E6 N-mm. If that was an unfactored moment, the stress would be 646MPa for a beam with S = 430,000mm3, very close to the value you found. The fact that your loads already have a safety factor of 2.5 would suggest you should be considering the plastic modulus, not the section modulus. You should also make allowance for the unbraced length of the beam and the possible overturning of the forklift under the prescribed load.
The deflection calculation can be closely approximated by considering a concentrated load at the tip of the cantilever of 98.1 + 0.8*2.8/2 = 99.2kN. This is a factored load and your deflection calculation should be based on an unfactored load or service load, in your case P = 99.2/2.5 = 39.7kN or 39,700N.
The expression for deflection at the tip of the cantilever is Pa2(L+a)/3EI where P = 39700, a = 2800, L = 1000 and I is the moment of inertia of the beam selected.
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