General concepts:
1) Usually the centroid a of your wood and steel plies align so your bolt design need not consider VQ/It shear.
2) Usually your load is delivered to the wood plies and not the steel plies. Your distributed bolts need to deal with that.
3) At reaction points, usually only your wood plies are in contacts with the bearings. As such, you often need a gaggle of bolts at these locations to transfer the load out of the steel plies.
4) Usually folks use through bolts with washers rather than lag bolts. I think that it's good to have some interply frictions working in your favour.
5) The bolt spacing influences the local buckling potential in the steel plates. I've never known anyone to consider that explicitly in practice however. We discussed it in a thread here once and considered treating a chunk of plate between bolts as a column of sorts.
6) If your plates don't make it to the reaction points, or either the steel or wood plies need splicing mid-span, things get pretty complicated. Let's cross those bridges only if necessary.
I like to debate structural engineering theory -- a lot. If I challenge you on something, know that I'm doing so because I respect your opinion enough to either change it or adopt it.