JAE:
In addition to Ron's suggestion, it would be possible with, say three volunteers of known weights, say 175, 200 and 250# (you coule throw in 120# too if you wanted), a light, a black background with a lateral deflection scale, combined with trigonometry, to determine the actual lateral deflection of the pole under use, and see what the actual lateral force to weight ratio is.
Mike McCann
MMC Engineering