bernt,
A modal analysis will not give you forces. It provides you only with the solution of the eigenvalue problem concerning the stiffness and mass of the structure. Unless you are doing a direct frequency response analysis, the usual FE solution scheme uses the modal analysis as a pre-cursor to dynamic analysis (i.e. modal frequency response), and then post-processes the frequency response results for the random analysis.
Many systems behave like narrow band oscillators when subjected to broad band random excitation. If you believe this to be the case with your system, then you can approximate the RMS acceleration of the system c.g. by the following:
a-RMS := sqrt((pi*f*Q*W)/2)
where f is the resonant frequency, Q is the amplification factor, and W is the input power spectral density (at the resonant frequency). You can verify the narrow band behavior of your model and calculate Q by performing a frequency response analysis of your model.
Once you calculate the RMS acceleration, convert it to a peak acceleration and apply this acceleration as a body load to your model in a static analysis. Calculate the strains in the bolts, then use the strains in your strain-life equation to calculate the fatigue life.
pj