Always, always, always, apply anti-seize, or _something_, to the threads of a stainless bolt. Even ear wax is better than nothing. Also better than nothing is Loctite Pipe Sealant, a good goop to carry if you only want to carry one goop.
I'm guessing that what's happening now is that when the bin shaker whacks the nylon, it's compressing the rubber enough to remove all or most of whatever preload has been applied, and the head is pushed away from the inner bin wall, where it's exposed to the corrodent on its underside. Corrosive environments do not improve the fatigue life of fasteners.
Torquing the nut to anywhere near bolt yield will just cause the rubber, and to a lesser extent the nylon, to ooze out from under the retaining washer/nut.
A larger bolt might actually help a little.
As might putting a stainless bushing around the bolt shank, through the nylon and rubber layers, so the bolt is compressing a stack comprising the bin wall, the bushing, and the retaining washer under the nut, and the compression of the nylon and rubber is limited by the bushing, which should be a hair shorter than the combined thickness of the rubber and nylon.
Are you sure there wasn't a bushing in the stackup when it left the factory?
Mike Halloran
NOT speaking for
DeAngelo Marine Exhaust Inc.
Ft. Lauderdale, FL, USA