This water will be more of a scaling problem than a corrosion problem.
As a minimum treatment for the heating equipment, you should treat this water with a water softener to remove the hardness. The hardness present in the raw water will ruin the heat exchanger equipment.
The hardness of the water is so extremely elevated, that use of a water softener may be very expensive. However, use of the water softener will be less expensive than buying soap (hard water requires additional soap) and replacing scaled up heating equipment.
The existing pH of 12 is outside the drinking water range. You will also have to feed some type of NSF approved acid to reduce the pH to the 8-9 range.
There will be a long term issue with stainless steel stress cracking corrosion because of the elevated chloride content. You will have to use an RO process if you desire to reduce the chloride.
This water is not going to be aesthetically pleasing for drinking water purposes. If you want high quality potable water, then you will have to use RO. And yes, the RO will waste 15-25% of the raw water.
Another option that you should investigate is the drilling of new water well into a different aquifer.
Regarding “should have added that the boiler companies will not warranty systems with distilled water running through them" ....That is an incorrect statement. For example, all modern utility boilers run on ultrapure distilled water.
Yes, distilled water may be slightly more corrosive than regular tap water, but distilled water may be easily treated to remedy the corrosiveness.
The micron filter is not doing anything for you since the turbidity is already low. Micron filters are used for turbidity removal.
The UV is also probably not doing anything for you either. The UV treatment is for disinfection.