First thing, in the exempt fields I have worked in and currently work in PE has limited value so I don't lose sleep over that aspect. Plus at least in my state time spent 'drafting' doesn't count toward PE experience last I looked into it. So the Engineering boards seem to be on the side of drafting not being real engineering.
While I certainly have thoughts about aspects of the education system I'm not sure this it necessarily the thread or forum to go into too much depth on that - there have been related threads over in "Where is Engineering Going In The Next 5 Years" as I recall. Suffice to say having been educated in the UK not so very long ago I got my bachelors in 3 years, in part because we started focusing our education at age 16. So my last 2 years of high school I took only subjects directly related to my eventual degree - per an accreditation review I had when I came to the US I was effectively part way through Sophmore year based just on my high school subjects and grades.
As to how I learned to draft I think I mentioned some above, I too got very little drafting education at university or high school. However, my jobs have required me to do my own drafting 99% of the time. My first job was in defense in the UK where the drawings were actually a contract deliverable much of the time so there was some checking process though with hindsight it wasn't fantastically robust. However, I did learn a lot from having my drawings checked by experienced peers - and also from my own desire to do a good job and get a drawing through check with no red-lines (only in part to avoid the teasing one got for bad drawings)! I spent a reasonable amount of time (some on the clock, some mine) looking up the relevant drawing standards, asking questions about how to do things, looking at existing drawings etc..
My current job in the US required good drafting skills, I just missed some on site GD&T training when I started here but got hold of the materials from the class and went over them on my own time. I also spent time looking at the standards. I was also fortunate to have very experienced & skilled checker for a couple of years who I learned a lot from. When he got laid off I actually got made checker for a while and further self educated to be able to perform the job I was being paid to do.
So for the most part I learned to draft not through formal training & experience by taking the initiative to learn; having some help from colleagues and having some requirement from 'management' for my drawings to be good.
Oh dear, I've gone and said far more than I originally intended.
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