"of course, the easy (and inaccurate) way is to use an impact factor of 2 (so that the force on the structure is, near enough, 10,000 lbs)." No don't do that. Check out how that factor of 2 is derived. For a start you can see it gives an odd answer, since it ignores the drop height.
You could build an accurate scale model of the setup and instrument that and test it. Scaling it is not going to be straightforward.
A non linear FEA model such as LS Dyna would be used in the automotive industry to simulate crashing cars into concrete blocks to some tremendous accuracy. I think that is overkill, and you probably haven't got the budget and you certainly don't have the correlation data.
jayrod12 suggested this is an impact problem, which he's simplified down to a single degree of freedom spring mass system. That is the way I'd approach it. You know the stiffness of the platform, you know the velocity at initial impact, you know the mass. First year dynamics. k*x
2=m*v
2 gives you x, then k*x is your maximum force. This assumes linear elastic, in real life you might prefer to absorb the energy in a plastic hinge in which case you need to know the moment of plasticity of your platform.
Cheers
Greg Locock
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