I'm not a fan of embedding the wooden posts in concrete. I guess it might depend on the climate, but up here you have two serious issues. First, it tends to lead to rotting as water collects at the base and doesn't escape, and it also serves as a place where water penetrates into the footing and freezes, damaging the post and footing. Instead I always use post bases, made by Simpson or other manufacturers.
In Chicago, I find the multi story decks are always tied into the main building structure and we rely on that for the later system. We do get some stability from having interior columns and stair stringers.
For short single story structures that are in the 3 to 6 feet off the ground category, I've used kickers pretty successfully. Architects don't mind in this case, since this is just a crawl space anyhow.
It also depends if the structure is clad or not. If it is an open structure there simply isn't too much area for wind to collect on.
M.S. Structural Engineering
Licensed Structural Engineer and Licensed Professional Engineer (Illinois)