the dearation steam(in your case the extraction steam), affects dearator performance. It is critical to have enough steam available to maintain dearator pressure in the event of high make up water demand.
The steam vent operation have to do with the internals of the dearator. In the tray type, if you are flooding the trays, you might get the "spitting" referred to. I have not worked with the spray type. Take a look at the operating manual. They usually have a good over-view.
The vent it self is usually a "restriction orifice". If the plant is pretty old, it can be erroded, and require replacement.