Ron hit many a nail on the head, and we do similar forensic work it seems... I do inspections sometimes in several homes a week all over the state, and cracks in tile are often worrisome to the homeowners, but we usually chalk it up to cracks in the slab telegraphing through the tile, and sometimes possibly due to poor workmanship in mortar coverage that causes cracks due to foot traffic.
Hokie- The further south you go in Florida and the closer you are to water, the more tile you see. I am pretty sure its a cultural thin in South Florida with the Latino majority and their Spanish architectural traditions (many more tile roofs, CMU and stucco walls, etc.) Now tile is pretty much standard in wet rooms and in many common areas, with laminate and real wood flooring making in-roads, especially with the improvement of laminate flooring quality and low price of material and installation.
I rarely see control joints in residential construction, sometimes in garages but very rarely in the house. Structural engineers have been pretty well kept out of most residential construction, and if its not required by code its not likely many contractors would do it, or know how and where to do it correctly. It would take coordination with the architect to align the joints with flooring transitions or walls but it could be done. Or you could let the slab crack where it wants during curing and then chase the cracks with a grinder and epoxy them, but NOBODY is doing that.
When I do a forensic investigation and people are having tile problems because of cracks in the slab, I give them the options and also warn them about the lack of guarantees.
I've also seen a lot of tenting and de-bonding failures, but that is its own subject. Had it happen on a rental property of mine. I did 4-5 repairs and then gave up and removed all of the tile (myself), did laminate in one room and did an epoxy coating in the rest. It serves its purpose, which is as little maintenance as possible..