The problem is a common one - choked flow thru a relief valve orifice plate(piping system area minimum- defines max flowrate)the expands thru exhaust pipe and finally exits thru the exhaust silencer.
The flow prediction and pressure distribution defined in the asme sect VIII appendix is based on the bechtel Liao method, but it does not directly recognize the possible restriction caused by the silencer. In my opinion, the problem would be solved as follows:
a) confirm the net open area of the silencer is much larger than the exhaust pipe between relief valve and silencer.
b) initially assume the system will provide a pressure at the relief valve elbow lower than required for full relief valve flow rating.
c) for that design flow , work backwards thru the silencer for the min required pressure entering the silencer. Then confirm that the the velocity of the fluid entering the silencer / exiting exhaust pipe is below sonic , ie mach number < 1.0.
d) for a mach no < 1.0 at the exit of the exhaust pipe, calculate the pressure drop in the exhaust pipe by breaking the pipe into 100 smaller segments ( ie divide total fL/d by 100) and incrementally work backwards to the min required pressure at the inlet of the exhaust pipe. exit of releif valve elbow.
e) confirm this elbow exhaust press is lower than required for full relief valve rating.
f) if the velocity calculated from step (c) is above mach no of 1.0, then there is a shock wave at the inlet to the silencer. Increase the pressure at the outlet of the exhaust pipe ( upstream of the shock wave) until that mach number = 1.0, then use the bechtel Liao method ( fanno curves) as outlined in sect VIII to compute pressures thru the piping system.
g) step d can alternately be computed using the fanno curves, but I'll leave that for a student homework assignment