Hi stru-eng,
You touch on an important, but often glossed over topic. Yes, there are many "verification" problems that have been run on FEM software, but almost all of them (probably all of them?) are comparisons of FEM results to theoretical solutions. After all, the Finite Element Method is a numerical method to solve a set of differential equations. So, within the context of linear elasticity, say, you can compare the FEM solution to an "exact" solution from Timoshenko. Almost always, when they say "exact" they are talking about an exact solution to a differential equation, it has nothing to do with test. The publications of NAFEMS fall into this category for the most part, I believe.
The whole comparison of FEM to reality brings up the question of the mathematical theory underlying the FEM. FEM solves mathematical theory to a greater or lesser accuracy. But how well does the chosen mathematical theory (beam theory, shell theory, elasticity theory, etc.) represent your problem is a different question. Off the top of my head, I am not aware of a good place where this full correlation (test-theory-FEM) is rigorously performed. As NR999 suggests, there are many articles where people make a test to compare against their FEM, or vice versa, but these are what I would call "one-offs". If you get a reasonable comparison (perhaps after tuning the model to match the test), for a single case, that does not necessarily translate to "accuracy" of the FEM as a method in and of itself, just that that particular model adequately represents that particular problem. That sort of comparison is done quite often on important hardware, but is usually proprietary to a company.
Another thing comes to mind. There is a British book from the 1950s, where they performed tests on steel building frames, and made comparisons with linear elastic structural analysis calculations (not FEM of course). The results were different enough to cause a revision of structural thinking and lead to the plastic methods of structural design for steel. The book is: The Steel Skeleton, in 2 volumes, by J.F. Baker, published by Cambridge University Press in 1954 & 1956.
I will continue looking, and will post back here if I find something relevant in the near future.
Thanks,
sdm919