TVP,
You're quite correct, that is the current consensus on the definition of bolts and screws, but nearly everyone in this thread has spoken of "bolt head" including the OP. I suppose in my first post, it would have been more correct to say how do you "stop it turning", but for an old fart like me, with my formative years spent in the "infernal combustion engine" business, a "screw head" will always be something to do with woodworking and there must still be loads of old flat-head engines about with "cylinder head bolts" and millions of "big end bolts" holding con-rods together, all with hex heads, all screwed into tapped holes and then torqued down by the head!
The essential point I was making in my second post is that in the absence of spanner flats or similar and with what appears to be a plain cylindrical head with a hidden way of stopping rotation, you need something (maybe the two marks) as a reference to indicate that it hasn't turned when the nut is tightened. The nut may have seized or run up against the end of the thread if a washer is left off or the part it secures has been machined down in thickness, without a suitable witness mark, all the torque applied to the nut may just be destroying the square under the head or the hole it fits in.