I'm a structural engineer who's fairly new to pipe stress engineering. We have Autopipe and Caesar II, and although I agree Coade support seems good, using and learning the program is difficult. It's slow and not intuitive. Autopipe isn't perfect, but it's more intuitive and windows-like than Caesar, and Bentley support is not bad from what I've experienced. I'd bet good $$ that if you took 2 equally experienced engineers (if that was possible) who hadn't used either program and assigned 1 to work with Autopipe and the other to work with Caesar II, the engineer working with Autopipe would become productive with Autopipe in a much shorter period of time.
It may just be me, but I detect a somewhat knee-jerk emotional defense of Caesar among pipe stress engineers when discussing other piping programs. And I've seen first hand that C2 is not all that. I'm guessing that some of this defensive posture may be based on Coade tech support being there in the past when they needed them or maybe they don't really know other pipe stress program so they reflexively recommend what they know. Caesar does seem to be the most widely used, but I've learned that Autopipe is widely used by some big firms like Fluor and Worley Parsons, so it's not like all the big companies agree that Caesar is better.
I haven't used Triflex or Caepipe, so I can't comment on those programs, but I would try and match your needs with the software. If you're going to need buried pipeline analysis, or offshore capabilities, structural modeling or if you will need to use a specific international piping code, you'll want to consider those issues in your choice.