A single seal with a steam quench will have connections on the gland in addition to a throttle bushing; the steam will get injected between the seal faces and the throttle bushing through an inlet, then drain freely through the second connection in this area (one will be labeled 'quench' or 'Q', one labeled 'Drain' or 'D', most likely).
Typically, the drain is freely pipied to atmosphere. If you can't tolerate any leakage to atmosphere, you can route leakage to a collection device, labeled API Plan 65A or B; not to be confused with Plan 75 which is for dual seals. If you want to go lower tech, you can run a Plan 66A or B, which involves an additional port between the seal faces and throttle bushing where a pressure sensing device is mounted (gauge or transmitter). The area between the sensing port and quench area is either separated by a bushing (Plan 66A) or an orifice fitting is included in the connection (Plan 66B). The purpose of the last two plans is to provide restriction for leakage of the primary seal enough so that pressure will be detectable in order to provide an indication of increased primary seal leakage.
These are just some suggestions. Whoever is your preferred seal vendor should be able to provide you with some guidance as well.