First, I am not a lawyer and with today's society, someone will sue anytime something goes wrong (just my personal observation).
The NESC states that it covers only structures that support conductor wire that goes past the substation fence. Many designers use NESC for the other structures inside the fence just because they wanted to, but it is not required by NESC. You are correct that ASCE 113 is a guide and we are currently revising the 1st edition to add a few things like a foundation chapter.
I was Vice-Chair of the 1st edition and I am the Chair of the revision committee.
I've been designing substation structures for 40+ years and we created 113 to put into words what the trends were in the industry for the new Engineers coming into the industry. As a "guide" you are free to use your own factors and combinations. I don't remember the page and chapter, but somewhere in ASCE 7 there is a disclaimer that it does not cover our T-Line and Substation structures. I have been told by some really smart guys, we have ASCE 74 (also in revision) for our loads. In 113, we give some guidance on which loads to use and some suggested load factors, and they are different from ASCE 7.
My own philosophy is, the building and bridge engineers have to consider human life in their design loads and combinations and ASCE 7 reflects this with large overload factors. In our substations, the public or our workers will not be climbing our structures during an ice storm or hurricane or other extreme wind event. If our structures fall over in an earthquake or hurricane, the chance of loss of life is very small. It will knock out power for a few hours/days/weeks and your kids will not be able to update their Facebook page.
ASCE 113 is a consensus document and several Engineers got together and put in what we thought was a "Best-Practice" manual to guide the less experienced designer. It has gone through a peer-review and it is the best effort of some experienced engineers. If the Substation owner is a big company, they may have an idea of what they want the structures designed for or they may have some load combinations and factors that they want followed. The smaller owners may have to rely on a consultant to give them some guidance. ASCE 113 attempts to give that guidance.
The owner is free to specify that the structures remain standing after a 3000 year return period storm if they want a very strong structure (and are willing to pass the extra cost to the consumer), but we felt a 50 year MRI (like used in ASCE 7-05) was appropriate for our structures. The new edition of 113 will use the wind maps from ASCE 7-2016 with a few modifications.
Sorry for the long post, Comment back if you have other questions.
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