First let me say that the answers you received already are really excellent and probably deserving of some shiny stars. Even so I would like to add some comments.
Pat is right that fillers generally have thermal expansion coefficients about 1/10 that of polymers. That means adding the glass fiber helps in that regard, bringing the CTE of the filled resin closer to that of the glass sheet. As Pat said, adding a mineral filler (an isotropic one like CaCO3) would help reduce the CTE further.
The second factor is the shrinkage on cure. A friend of mine did a study on how that affects bonding (J. Lange, KTH Stockholm). Anyway, what he showed is that the curing during shrinkage builds a stress at the coating / substrate interface and that tries to delaminate the joint. At the start of cure the shrinkage is there but the resin is liquid so there is no force built up. As cure proceeds the total force at the interface builds. Think of it as a spring, the force is the shrinkage x the modulus of the resin at that point in the cure. Here the glass fibers hurt you a lot because they increase the modulus of the material by 100% or even more. They only do that in the direction they are aligned too so it's important to align them evenly in all directions. Or can you remove the glass fibres? What do they give to the final product? Consider mica instead.
Regarding silanes they can help adhesion a lot, especially if water gets in to the bond area. The idea of adding something soft was also a nice one (e.g. PU) but if you can afford to lower the modulus by adding a soft component then I would suggest it's cheaper and better to just leave out or reduce the glass fiber amount.
Hope that helps.